Topic: I am 30, she is 21...we are in love.Question is is she too young for me?  (Read 3556 times)

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Guys ... i have a new request for advice, this is coming from a friend and i will put i the way he wrote it to me

Tee, How far, I have this young girl, she is 21 years old and i think, or i know that she loves me and i love her maybe because everything just fits together, SHe is humble, submissive, ready to be listen and be guided and beautiful and aside this, very intelligent. And without trying to take advantage of a young heart, i find her very attractive and loving, my main problem is her age.

If she was 24, I would easily not be scared of taking it all the way but she is 21 and then i feel there are some questions to be raised. I inted to settle down much sooner and then i ask is she ready for the responsibility of marriage, Is the age difference not to alarming as we are both Christians, if she is not just too young for all this.

My parents had 14 years between them, Her parents have like 22 years between them so this may not be a parental thing but a 21st century women ego or man relation thing. My friend, everything in me sells for this chick except that i'm not sure if a 21 year old lady understand .
« Last Edit: October 20, 2012, 08:45:03 PM by flukky01 »

Re: I am 30, she is 21...we are in love.Question is is she too young for me?
« Reply #1 on: October 20, 2012, 07:39:17 PM »
I believe age is just numbers,the major thing should be how to convince her to marry you if you are ready.and hope to get the parents blessings.lobatan.
« Last Edit: October 20, 2012, 08:43:39 PM by flukky01 »

Re: I am 30, she is 21...we are in love.Question is is she too young for me?
« Reply #2 on: October 23, 2012, 12:25:04 AM »
age is just a number, ok ok
a 21 years old girl, to me, she is not mentally mature for marriage, no matter how intelligence she might be,
anoda tin is a way to convience her into marriage soon,
but, what will be will be, if two hearts wanna be togeda, they will
as a nigerian thats my opinion
As an americana, get married to her, after 2 years, she will realize she was to young when she got married and she will want a divorce...

Re: I am 30, she is 21...we are in love.Question is is she too young for me?
« Reply #3 on: October 23, 2012, 12:31:51 AM »
age is just a number, ok ok
As an americana, get married to her, after 2 years, she will realize she was to young when she got married and she will want a divorce...

Divorce bah ....hehehehehehe

Re: I am 30, she is 21...we are in love.Question is is she too young for me?
« Reply #4 on: October 23, 2012, 09:55:23 AM »
too young ke!!! she dey alright o, very okay sef

 

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