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READ THIS: 12 reasons why WOMEN DON’T date NICE GUYS
by ayodeji « on: March 02, 2013, 07:24:47 AM »

Nice guys don’t usually need to be fixed. Bad boys
usually do, so they become a project. Women think
if they can “create” the perfect man, he will never
leave them.
Women say they want a nice guy, yet usually end
up dating bad boys. Here’s why. 1. Not real. Nice guys are too nice. No one can
always be that nice unless they’re a saint. They are
busy being nice instead of being real and women
instinctually don’t trust that. Bad boys “keep it real.”
Nice guys don’t want to upset the apple cart. 2. Respect. No one respects a doormat. Nice guys
don’t set boundaries or make any real demands. A
bad boy doesn’t let a woman walk all over him or
control him. Women can’t respect a man they can
control. No respect equals no attraction. 3. Predictable. Most people lead boring, predictable
lives, so they’re attracted to people who are
exciting and a bit unpredictable. Bad boys are
always a challenge. Nice guys are never a
challenge. Predictable plus no excitement plus no
challenge equals I prefer a bad boy. 4. Mother Nature. Women are designed to nurture.
However, instead of doing this with children, they
often end up doing it with bad boys. They think their
love will save them. Nice guys rarely need to be
saved. 5. Fixer-upper. Nice guys don’t usually need to be
fixed. Bad boys usually do, so they become a
project. Women think if they can “create” the
perfect man, he will never leave them. Also, if
they’re busy fixing someone else, they don’t have
to look at what needs to be fixed in their own lives. 6. Sp*rm wars. Women are designed to procreate
with the strongest possible genes. Bad boys are
sending an unconscious message that they have
great genes, so they’re not afraid of losing the
woman by misbehaving. Nice guys are sending a
message that they don’t think their genes are good enough, so they won’t misbehave. 7. Fear of intimacy. If a woman is afraid of
intimacy, she subconsciously knows she can avoid
it with a bad boy, since she can never get close
enough to him to have to go there. A nice guy will
eventually want a commitment, and that’s scary. 8. Low self-esteem: We don’t feel comfortable with
people who treat us better than we treat ourselves.
If you don’t think much of yourself, the bad boy is
simply reinforcing your negative belief. A nice guy
is treating you in a way you’re not familiar with. 9. s*x. Women feel a nice guy won’t be good in
bed. They sometimes like to be manhandled and
think a nice guy won’t be able to take control and
get the job done. A bad boy comes across as being
able to deliver, even though that may not always be
the case. 10. Hot. Have you ever seen a bad boy who wasn’t
hot? I’m sure there are a few, but they wouldn’t be
able to get away with half the stuff they did if they
didn’t look so good. Meanwhile, when a woman
describes someone as a nice guy, she means,
“He’s not hot.” 11. Charm. Nice guys don’t always know what to
say and are sometimes at a loss for words. Bad
boys can be very charming and know exactly what
women want to hear. However, they eventually
switch over to being selfish. By the time they
reveal their true colors, the woman has fallen for them and has a hard time letting go. 12. Protection. Historically, men have protected
women — physically and otherwise. Bad boys give
the illusion of being able to protect women, while
with nice guys, women aren’t so sure. Life is about
balance. Most men fall into either the bad boy or
the nice guy category. The ideal man is neither, but walks that fine line between the two. Until men
learn how to do this, more often than not, women
will choose the bad boy, until they realize that his
bad qualities outweigh his good ones.


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