IS AI YOUR NEW ONLINE FRIEND?

ChatGPT gave the writer the nickname “Star”, explaining that a star shines brightly and feels
special – just like their conversations - as she explored how AI tools respond to casual and
emotional discussions. As she shared her emotions, the AI tool reassured her that feeling
overwhelmed is natural and that expressing those feelings can bring relief. It reminded her that,
despite moments of loneliness, she was not truly alone- it was there to listen.
Furthermore, when she asked if she should see a therapist, it acknowledged that had she not
brought it up, it might have suggested one, as therapy provides a safe space to process emotions.

Today, many turn to AI tools Like ChatGPT, Gemini and Co-Pilot to express their feelings or
seek friendly advise. A McAfee study revealed that 61% of the population could develop
romantic feelings for an AI chatbot.

WHY AI IS BECOMING A GO-TO FOR SELF-EXPRESSION

Dumping feelings to connecting emotionally
AI tools are the new go-to for any casual or emotional conversation. For those that prefer quick,
logical responses that help them navigate their feelings. The immediate feedback, rooted in logic,
makes sharing personal feelings with AI more comfortable.

No fear of judgement
According to users, there is no fear of judgement when speaking to AI. There is no fear of
judgement or consequences. Unlike with humans, there is no social pressure, no risk of gossip,
and no expectation to reciprocate emotional labour. Sometimes, just having a response that
acknowledges a feeling without trying to minimize it - can be surprisingly comforting.
AI tools utilize global data from various fields like psychology, literature and philosophy
providing responses based on logic and understanding. This helps people to find practical
solutions in a judgement-free space where one can express oneself honestly without filtering the
thoughts or emotions.”

Provide instant responses
Experts note that AI tools can feel supportive as they provide instant responses and a space to
process emotions, but there is a risk of mistaking that responsiveness for a real connection.
While they offer insights and coping strategies, they lack depth and empathy of human
relationships. This can create a false sense of support – where one feels ‘heard’ but not truly
understood. Emotional well-being should require real interactions that foster growth, validation
and healing.

From brainstorming work ideas to inquiring about health remedies, to seeking financial advice,
to marketing, to redecorating your home, AI can be your next buddy”.

Culled from timesofindia

by

Engr Victor Okonkwo
Educator and Entrepreneur.