Topic: 35 years old and still searching....what shall we say?  (Read 3006 times)

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35 years old and still searching....what shall we say?
« on: September 19, 2013, 10:35:31 PM »
here is a story i stumbled upon and i taught it was ok to share

“I am 35 years old and even though seeing other peoples wedding bring joy to my heart, I have gotten to that stage in life where I know now for sure this will never happen for me"

I believe in being friends above everything else, the shared ideals (religious, life etc) and then a connection. The physical isn’t of great importance, but the men I am meeting these days I can’t even have a connection with and trust me I have tried. I have been in relationships in the past, but it’s always that I gave too little or I gave too much. I am tired it shouldn’t be this hard.

I want to have kids desperately, but I don’t want to be a single mom (nothing against single mothers), my mom and grand mother were single mothers and I felt their struggle I wouldn’t want to go through that. I guess I am the one with the problem…

I am tired of hoping, praying, and wishing. I have come to accept this more than likely won’t happen for me, I see a lot of single girls are going through the same struggle, and it seems hopeless. I want to be married, to a man I love, a man with whom I can grow with.”

Eeeya... what can we say to such?

Re: 35 years old and still searching....what shall we say?
« Reply #1 on: September 20, 2013, 11:48:59 PM »
Nothing is impossiple for God to do.just keep believing God,get some good books,then build ur faith,i bet u before u know it,everything will turn around to ur favour.... 

 

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