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How to Make Someone Fall in Love with You
« on: August 08, 2012, 07:30:18 AM »

LEAD BY EXAMPLE. If you want to make someone fall in love with you, you'll have to fall in love with yourself first. Just as, if you want respect, you must demonstrate self-respect, no one worthy of your time is going to surrender their heart to someone who can't even impress themselves. Think of all the wonderful, interesting, clever, and enchanting parts of your personality and realize how valuable they make you as a person. If you can't think of many reasons to love yourself, love yourself anyhow. How you see yourself and treat yourself shows the rest of the world how you should be treated. Lead with an example of appreciation for the unique and fantastic person you are and others will follow. If you want to make someone fall in love with you, the first 'someone' should be YOU.

CHALLENGE YOURSELF AND GROW. Change is exciting. Change is a mystery. People who challenge themselves, grow, and transform have an aura of adventure that keeps other people interested. It also makes others want to come along for the ride. Keep learning, trying, embracing new parts of the universe. Make someone fall in love with you, and make sure they can't turn their attention away from you for fear they will miss your next exciting development.

FORGIVE. FORGET. BE HAPPY. You may have a lot of emotional baggage left over from past relationships. Perhaps you were mistreated or your trust was violated. Whatever happened in your past that still makes you angry, let go of it. Resenting old lovers sends a message to new lovers that they will be competing with history for your devotion. Be here now. Show the person you want to make fall in love with you that you are free, functional, and ready to fall in love again.

BE POSITIVE. There are worse ways to make someone fall in love with you than spilling joy and happiness into their lives. If you really want to make an impression, ditch the negativity and stand out from the crowd as a beacon of light and positivity. There's nothing more lovable than happiness.

ENJOY LIFE. Make someone fall in love with you by showing your appreciation for life, big and small. Not just fun and exciting times, but dull and quiet times too. Be at peace and enjoy your cold cup of drive-thru coffee. Appreciate the mishaps, the storms, the losses as part of life, and keep focused on the bigger picture: the beauty of existence, not the minor misfortunes.

BE GENEROUS. People who give freely of their time and heart have no problem making someone else fall in love. In fact, their giving nature displays a confidence that makes them irresistible. Not only does it show your ability to sympathize with others, but it shows you are confident that you have more than enough of your heart and resources to share.

HAVE REASONABLE STANDARDS. If you're trying to make someone fall in love with you, have reasonable expectations of what and who that person really is. Even if you do make someone fall in love with you, don't expect that it will dramatically change or fix your life. Don't expect that someone to be perfect or anything more than they appeared to be before you decided to seduce them. Holding someone to an unrealistic and impossible standard is a great way to kill and amazing love affair.

NO UNCONDITIONAL LOVE. Love without conditions is something that happens between parents and children, family members, etc. It's not something that should happen in a relationship. Even if you are able to make someone fall in love with you, that doesn't mean you should accept whatever comes along. Hold onto your standards. Never let the one you want think that everything they do will be accepted. When you love a lover unconditionally, you become a doormat. Know how you should be treated and let the one you want know too.

GIVE THEM WHAT THEY WANT. It's easy to make someone fall in love with you if you know what they really want. They don't even need to know what they want for you to give it to them. In fact, if you can fill a void that they weren't consciously aware of, the effect you have in their life will seem magical. Does the one you want need acceptance, companionship, excitement, stability? Take a look at their personality and life and see if there isn't some unknown need or want begging to be satisfied.

NEVER STOP TRYING. Sure, you can make someone fall in love with you, but then what? If you stop trying to impress your love or lover, your relationship and love will be short lived. Approach making love like it was the first time, every time. Dress like it's your first date no matter how many times you've been out together. Never stop trying to impress the person you want. Keep trying and keep dazzling them. Make someone fall in love with you today... and tomorrow... and the next day.


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